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The Virgin Suicides - Jeffrey Eugenides

 


TW: Suicide






As a teen, I was really taken with the film, The Virgin Suicides with Kirsten Dunst. I remember watching it so much (an honour held by very few films) but everytime - it completely devastated me. I don't think I was quite mature enough to understand beyond; these beautiful young people couldn't take it anymore so they ended their lives. 

Fast forward and I bought the book last year. I had to wait until I was emotionally ready to read it knowing that there was a very strong chance I'd be left a mess. 

A few confessions:
  • Knowing the story as I do, I am confident in saying that I probably rushed through this book
  • I didn't allow myself to emotionally connect to it
But I don't regret it. 

I think I will re-read this one another time; I don't think I was as ready as I thought otherwise I would have digested the story slower and with more care. 

What I didn't anticipate was how stunning the writing is. Written from the perspective of one of the witnesses of the incidents, everything is explained with care, and described from the heart. 

I will read this again. And I will allow myself to feel it. But for now, if you're looking for a book to hit you in the gut with emotions and what if's, then this could be the book for you. 


 

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